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Halloween Wedding Planning: Save the Date, Invitations & Beyond...

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Halloween Wedding Invitations, Save the Dates & Stationery | Birdhouse197

Tarot cards, skeleton lovers, Victorian ghosts, falling leaves, planchettes... that's not a random list, that's the heart of what we do. At Birdhouse197 we land firmly on the elegant, gothic side of Halloween, with only the smallest nod to the bin liner costumes of our childhoods.

We live and breathe all things dark and alternative, so when it came to our own wedding in 2022, October was really the only option. This page is for the couples who feel exactly the same way, who have a vision in their mind and just need someone who gets it to bring it to life. So many of our customers tell us that a Halloween wedding is the only wedding that ever made sense to them. We're here for that. Taking inspiration from the colours, the mood, and the atmosphere that dark October nights bring, our stationery is designed to set the tone from the moment your guests open their save the date.

This isn't going to be a white wedding in the middle of August.

In This Life & The Next Ghosts gatefold wedding invitation with custom photo on black textured card

George & Joshua, Our Halloween Wedding in 2022

If I'm honest, I always knew that if I ever got married, I wanted something different. White flowers and a marquee in August were never for me. So I landed on my favourite holiday, my favourite time of year, and October it was.

Classy Halloween, to us, meant leaving the plastic zombie masks at home. It meant dark velvet, a pizza van, and nods to pumpkins and skeletons woven throughout the day without a single piece of plastic decoration in sight. We worked with every supplier, our florist included, to make sure each element suggested Halloween without ever shouting it. That thread running through the whole day is what made it feel considered and intentional rather than a 90s fancy dress party. Though honestly, I would absolutely attend a 90s Halloween party... 90s Wedding Invitation desings incoming.

The stationery was never just functional for us. We wanted our guests to receive something they'd want to keep, frame, put on a shelf. Something that told them from the moment it landed on their doormat that this wasn't going to be a usual wedding, in the absolute best way. Our save the dates, welcome sign, seating plan and table names all carried those same symbols throughout, and that consistency is what gave the whole day its atmosphere.

I have very little I'd change. We made sure the day suited both of us completely, and we like to think people still talk about it. Maybe that's just us.

George & Joshua, Birdhouse197

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A Halloween wedding, done our way

Photos from our Halloween wedding in 2022 George & Joshua Owners of Birdhouse197
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The Birdhouse197 founders in formal suits in a dimly lit room on their wedding day
Close-up of a wedding table with foiled personalised stationery and glassware in warm light
Dimly lit stairway with string lights and vintage decor at a wedding
Wedding stationery in a dimly lit room with eclectic vintage decor at our own wedding
Wedding sign with script lettering beside a glowing lantern and greenery
Wedding guests in formal attire with light art projected on a wall at a Halloween wedding
In This Life & The Next Ghosts gatefold wedding invitation with custom photograph and black matte textured card.

Planning your Halloween wedding stationery

The difference between Halloween wedding stationery done well and stationery that tips into costume territory usually comes down to colour, tone and intention. There's no single rule, but the couples whose stationery we're most proud of are the ones who had a clear feeling in mind and trusted us to translate it.

At Birdhouse197 we specialise in gothic, alternative and Halloween wedding stationery, from save the dates and wedding invitations through to seating plans, table names, welcome boards and on-the-day suites. Everything can be colour-matched to your palette. We've designed suites across a stunning range of tones, from soft off-whites and warm autumnal ambers through to deep blacks and rich purple gradients, so your stationery feels entirely yours rather than off-the-shelf spooky.


There's also no need to go full gothic if that isn't who you are. Even a few subtle nods to the alternative and the dark can be incredibly powerful. Our tarot-style seating plan is a perfect example of this. You don't need to be an all-out goth to appreciate its artistry, and it resonates with guests of all tastes. What matters is that it feels right for you as a couple.


We're proud members of the Dark Wedding Collective (darkweddings.co.uk/dark-wedding-directory), a brilliant directory of gothic and alternative wedding suppliers covering everything from subtle autumnal vibes to full pumpkins and candlelight. Finding suppliers who genuinely understand your vision makes an enormous difference to a Halloween or gothic wedding, and we'd love to be part of yours.

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Ready to start planning your Halloween Wedding?

From gothic wedding invitations and spooky wedding save the dates through to alternative on-the-day stationery, we design everything as a cohesive suite. Whether you're searching for Halloween wedding invites with real dark romance, or something more subtly witchy and atmospheric, we'll build it around your vision. Every design is personalised and printed in the UK.

Whether you have a fully formed vision or just a feeling you want to capture, we're here to help you bring it together. Fill out our bespoke enquiry form and we'll guide you from the very beginning.

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Place Your Order

Choose your quantity (personalised items are sold in sets of 10), pick your colours and add your wording in the personalisation box.

Receive Digital Mock-up

Within 7 days you’ll receive a digital mock-up by email so you can see exactly how your design will look before printing.

Unlimited Revisions

Request any changes and I’ll send updated mock-ups. You can make as many adjustments as you need until everything feels perfect.

Printing & Postage

Once the design is approved, I’ll print, pack and post your order, and share your tracking details. You’ll work directly with me, George, throughout the whole process for a fully personalised service.

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Gatefold wedding invitation with skeleton lovers and bleeding heart gothic design titled 'Til Death Do Us Part' on matte textured card
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Gothic Tarot Card Art Print featuring The Lovers skeleton design on textured matte A5 cardstock
Star-Crossed Lovers gothic gatefold wedding invitation with sword and wing illustration in black and white
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Til Death Do Us Part gatefold wedding invitation with gothic skeleton couple illustration and custom photo interior on matte textured card
Ace of Cups tarot save the date card with rounded corners, A6 size, matte finish for alternative weddings
Til Death Do Us Part gothic skeleton lovers tarot save the date card in dark wedding stationery style
Candle and Key gatefold wedding invitation in deep purple with white candle, key and ornate frame
Gothic Til Death Do Us Part foiled 3-piece wedding invitation suite featuring skeleton lovers tarot design on velvet soft-touch card
Til Death Do Us Part gatefold wedding invitation with gothic skeleton couple illustration on matte textured card
Til Death Do Us Part gothic wedding invitation suite featuring skeleton tarot illustration with tear-off RSVP on matte card
Sun and Moon celestial wedding vow books with gold and silver foil sun and moon covers
Gothic rose tarot save the date card with dark floral design on matte card
In This Life and The Next gatefold gothic wedding invitation with ghost illustration and personalised photo interior on matte textured card
The Bleeding Heart gothic tarot save the date card with anatomical heart illustration for dark romantic weddings
In This Life and The Next ghost save the date on a black checkered backdrop with gold leaves and branches
Two skeletons tarot card gothic save the date wedding card small format
Hand holding a square Star-Crossed Lovers save the date with gold foil bleeding heart and crossed swords on black
The Star Tarot gatefold invitation in deep blue and black with moon, star and zodiac illustration
Classic vintage Tarot Card Spread 3-Piece Invitation Suite for weddings with The Lovers, The Sun, and The Ace of Cups cards on high-quality velvet paper
Bleeding Heart gatefold wedding invitation featuring anatomical heart illustration on matte textured card
Hand drawn Sun and Moon tarot illustration on celestial save the date card for bohemian weddings
The Lovers Tarot gatefold wedding invitation with gothic illustration on matte textured card, personalised wedding stationery
Gothic anatomical bleeding heart foiled save the date card on velvet soft-touch paper