
'Til Death Do Us Part Wedding Theme | Inspiration from Birdhouse197
Some couples know from the start that their wedding was never going to be white flowers and a marquee in August. If 'til death do us part is a line you'd happily build a whole day around, you're in the right place.
It's the design that started Birdhouse197, and our couples have taken it far beyond the invitation. Here's how we'd approach a 'Til Death Do Us Part wedding theme, from the first card through the door to the sign that welcomes your guests in.
Where a 'Til Death Do Us Part Wedding Theme Starts
Your stationery is the first thing your guests see, so it's where the theme begins. Couples tell us ours set the tone of their entire day before a single guest stepped through the door.
The gatefold is our most popular choice for a dramatic reveal. The skeleton lovers part in the centre to unveil your invitation, order of the day and finer details in one striking piece. There are tarot style suites with a tear-off RSVP too, and save the dates to send first.
See the 'Til Death Do Us Part wedding invitations
'Til Death Do Us Part Wedding Signs
A welcome sign sets the tone before guests even walk in. Ours carries the same skeleton lovers as the invitations, personalised with your names and date, so the first thing people see on the day matches the first thing they opened months before. (Photograph by Scarlett Cook Photography)
See the 'Til Death Do Us Part welcome sign, or browse all of our welcome signs.
'Til Death Do Us Part Wedding Decorations for the Table
This is where the theme really settles in. Menu cards in the same design mean the whole table feels considered, and our tarot card art prints double as table numbers and decor.
“I love the quality and design of the “til death do us part” print so much!”
Jayme L. | Read all our Google reviews
Vow Books for a 'Til Death Do Us Part Ceremony
'Til death do us part, or till death do us part if you prefer, is a vow before it's a theme. So it felt right to make somewhere to write yours. Our Skeleton Lovers vow books come with gold foiling, and they're a keepsake for long after the day.
If you're still working on the words themselves, our gothic wedding vow books post is a good place to start.
“Ordered my welcome board sign and vow books for my wedding and they are GORGEOUS!”
Christina E. | Read all our Google reviews
A Real 'Til Death Do Us Part Wedding | Sophie & Jim
Sophie & Jim married on 20th May 2025 and carried 'Til Death Do Us Part through their day, from their stationery to the welcome sign that greeted their guests. You can see more from their day in our real wedding post on Sophie & Jim's on-the-day stationery.
Photographed by Ruby Walker Photography, @rubywalkerphoto.
'Til Death Do Us Part Wedding Ideas Beyond the Stationery
The stationery does the heavy lifting, but the details around it matter. A few things we'd point you towards:
- Candlelight wherever the venue allows it. This theme lives in low light.
- Dark velvet and dried flowers over anything plastic. It's what we chose for our own wedding.
- Skeletons as a thread, not a costume. A nod on the sign, the menu and the invitation suggests the theme without ever shouting it.
- Your own colours. It doesn't have to be black. Every piece can be printed in any colour or gradient, and sage green is a personal favourite of ours.
- Thank you cards with your own wedding photo, in the same design, to finish the story.
That thread running through the whole day is what makes it feel considered and intentional, and not like a fancy dress party.
The Story Behind 'Til Death Do Us Part
'Til Death Do Us Part has been around since 2019, a wedding invitation for couples who wanted their stationery to say forever and mean it differently. It has had various versions since, from our original skeletons to the updated Skeleton Lovers illustration that came later.
It was our first design to earn serious attention, and the one that showed us there were thousands of couples out there who felt exactly the same way we did. One even had it tattooed, and we're endlessly honoured by that. There's a cowboy skeleton edition too, which deserves a moment of appreciation.
Ready to Start?
Explore the 'Til Death Do Us Part collection or tell us about your day and we'll take it from there. If you'd like to hold the designs first, our sample packs are the easiest way.
George & Joshua
Real wedding photography: Ruby Walker Photography, @rubywalkerphoto.























